Some days I love to run.
Some days I’d rather light myself on fire.
Today I have an uncharacteristically sappy story to go along with my cloudy (thank god – it finally cooled down)Β run.
It’s about what motivates me, even when I don’t realllllly feel like dragging my ass to the gym or out for a run.Β Β ExercisingΒ was not really my “thing” until about age 24. Β To be honest, you would have been hard-pressedΒ to convince me to much more than walk to dinner. Β My mentality was “I’m not a big person, so why bother?”
Then my dad was diagnosed with cancer. Β Despite chemo, stem cell transplants, and a lot of experimental drugs,Β he still did some form of exercise almost every day. Β One morning while I was visiting him at MD Anderson where he was getting treatment, I went down to the fitness center with him and jogged on the treadmill while he walked along beside me with little 2 lb weights in his hands. Β It was all he could do, and he was happy to be there doing it.
That moment is when I started running. Β I looked at him and decided that if he could do that with terminal cancer, I had absolutely no excuse not to take better care of myself.
Years later I’ve found a lot of forms of exercise I love. Β I love to lift, I can run if I’m in the right mood, and I’ll attempt to play any sport. Β Most days I look forward to doing it, both for fun and for my health.
But yesterdayΒ I ran for my dadΒ again. Β It wasΒ his 61st birthday… and I’m sure if he was still here, he’d have been running circles around me.
End sappiness.Β
Read on forΒ my whole day of eats, and link up toΒ Jenn’sΒ WIAW baby right hereΒ today!
Breakfast:
The usualΒ morning cocktailΒ followed by my vitaminΒ gummies.Β
Then this deliciousness happened:
https://www.instagram.com/p/BJdJVA-giFI/
Lunch:
Post-run I was happy to have Meghan’s Spinach Lentil Veggie Burgers in the fridge. Β I heated it up and topped it with mustard. Β Sides of red bell pepper and raw asparagus.
I love these burgers. Β My little sister loves them. Β Vegas… well, if it doesn’t have meat and I call it a burger she is not amused. Β Hahaha! Β Don’t listen to Vegas though. Β These are good.
Snack:
I got more Growing Naturals protein in the mail, so I very excitedly made my favorite smoothie bowl after a quick back workoutΒ at the gym. Β This never gets old.
Chocolate rice protein, CocoCardio, spinach, cinnamon, sweet potato (it makes it creamy – trust me), ice, and water. Β Topped with granola and chia seeds.
Dinner:
Vegas had grill duty again with these Blueberry BBQ Skewers. Β That sweet-n-savory BBQ sauce is like crack.
Then we were off to a concert which involved wine and popcorn. Β #treatyoself
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Morgan @ Morgan Manages Mommyhood says
I LOVE this story! I love how you turned such a sad time into a passion you can now use to honor your day every day. He sounds like an amazing man and a fighter!
Laura says
Thank you Morgan! It was a good reminder for me just writing it down. π
Trish says
Inspirational! And the food, well it all looks amazing!!
Patricia @Sweet and Strong says
Aw loved reading your story. Everyone started somewhere and often has someone or a personal reason to honor each time they workout. All your food looks delicious! I love anything on a skewer and wine and popcorn is one of my favorite combos!
Laura says
Thank you! Maybe we need to somehow create a popcorn and wine skewer…
Victoria Myers says
Your post just made me a little teary eyed! A great reminder that exercise can be about so much more than burning calories! Thanks for sharing π
Laura says
Thanks Victoria! It was a good reminder just writing it.
Emily says
So thankful for what your dad taught you; my daddy has taught me so much too, and I think that his determination despite having lymphedema and health problems is something that often inspires me to workout and keep pursuing life with excitement and joy.
Laura says
Dads are the best, aren’t they? xo
Melissa says
This is great – such a wonderful story and semi-emotional (I’ll blame it on the new baby hormones). So inspirational – you are such an amazing person!
I haven’t always liked exercise and even now, the only things I really like are running and hiking/walking. And I LOVE veggie burgers – I’ll have to try that out!
Laura says
Ha ha! Those baby hormones are at least good for scapegoating. Thank you. π
Dietitian Jess\ says
That’s such a sweet story about your dad <3 I'm sure he's very proud of all your athletic accomplishments. I grew up playing softball, basketball, and running track so there has never been a lack of fitness in my life but now I prefer to exercise alone, haha.
Laura says
Thanks Jess! That’s awesome you grew up playing so many sports. I tried just about everything but softball was the only one I could stick with.
meredith @ cookie chrunicles says
your dad would be proud π
Laura says
Thank you Meredith!
Megan @ Skinny Fitalicious says
That is an incredible story about your Dad! I’m so happy you shared it too. I feel like so many people have a story but don’t always share it so thanks for that. We all find motivation in different ways!
Kelly @ Kelly Runs For Food says
I love that story! While I’ve always loved exercise in some form (my favorites have definitely changed over the years), my grandparents set a great standard that I’ve always wanted to live up to. Literally right up until the day my grandfather passed away, after numerous falls and pushing 90 years old, he would still get up, go out to the driveway, and walk up and down the driveway to get in his daily exercise. That was all he could do, but he did it every single day.
My grandma now still does the same thing and she’s in her 90s. I completely believe that her commitment to moving and taking care of herself has helped her live this long and I hope to be just like her at that age.
Laura says
Your grandfather (and gradmother!) sounds amazing. Mine was like that too – he was climbing trees to shake down pecan until right befor ehe died at 93!
Kaila@HealthyHelperBlog says
I am the SAME WAY with exercise. Somedays I feel like running, somedays I feel like biking, somedays I feel like lifting. I try not to keep myself in a box and just let my body do what it wants for the day. Loved reading how you found what works for you in fitness!
PS: the linkup said I had no backlink in my post even though I do! Can you approve it?
Thanks!
Laura says
It so much more fun that way! I love trying new things. π
Aurors@Fitness is Sweet says
Thank you for sharing that storyβthat is definitely an inspiration to exercise!
Kate says
I had a similar start to running, but I was much younger. My dad had a heart attack when I was 15. He started walking 4 miles a day after that. My mom and I would join him, but he was such a fast walker, our walk was a run to keep up with him
rachel @ athletic avocado says
What a very inspiring story, that’s so awesome that your Dad is the one who inspired you to exercise π
Joyce @ The Hungry Caterpillar says
I’m so sorry to hear about your dad, Laura. That’s an inspirational story, and not too sappy at all. (This is coming from a graduate student in creative nonfiction–I’ve seen sappy.) I’ll bet your dad would be so proud of your efforts to take good care of yourself. π
What was the concert you went to go see?
Laura says
Thank you Joyce! We saw Melissa Etheridge and Pat Benatar. It was a great show!
Tara @ Sweat like a Pig says
Wow, what a great, inspirational reason to exercise. I’m sure your dad would be very proud of you <3
Laura says
Thanks Tara. π
Nicole @ Foodie Loves Fitness says
That story totally made me tear up, my friend! What a motivator it must be to have your dad in mind when you run. I hope that you and your sister swapped fun dad stories yesterday to commemorate his birthday. <3
I'm linking up to the party for a change!
Laura says
We always do!
I’m glad you joined in! Everything looks delicious. π
Susie @ Suzlyfe says
I was always active as a kid, but I hated exercise for the sake of exercise. Now, I’m more of the exercise but not so much play. I would love to try to find a middle ground with that!
Laura says
That’s why I love playing softball. It’s my play time!
Carla says
I read and reread what you wrote about your dad above⦠It fits so perfectly with my post today as well. I found my love of the weights at around⦠22.
I’m still not a huge cardio fan π but embarrassingly I complained each day I did it until I hurt myself and couldn’t do a thing for months. And then I was just grateful I could move.
Laura says
It did go well!!! I love your post. Very timely for me.
Cayanne Marcus @healthyezsweet says
I was fighting back tears on this one Laura. I have to tell you, your blog posts are one of my favorites to read because in addition to being quirky and funny they are always so raw and honest. This one especially made my heart warm. Just wanted to let you know how much I enjoy your little corner of the internet here!
Laura says
That means so much to me… thank you!!! <3
Lauren says
I’m sorry for your loss. The health of a relative is also what got me into healthier eating and fitness. I didn’t want to live like that. I’m so glad I changed my lifestyle! Though you won’t catch me running after anything other than the baby :p
I miss out grill! We haven’t pulled it out once this year, pathetic! Or realistic?
Laura says
That’s really cool you have a similar story! I think running after a baby 100% counts! π
Kerri McGrail says
I love your story on why you started exercising! Its so interesting to me how people come to a healthier lifestyle. Your dad sounds awesome!
masala girl says
that’s so sweet. your dad sounds like suuch an inspiration!
also, FINALLY just bought some cococardio. you make it so appealing, and i cant wait to try it!! π
Laura says
YAY! I’d love to hear how you like it!
Kindal @LiftingRevolution says
Great story. sometimes its okay to be sappy. Sounds like your dad was a pretty amazing man and quite the inspiration. He would be really proud of you!
Laura says
Shhhh… you’ll ruin my image. π Thank you! xo
Cora says
Not sappy at all. Thank you for the story and reminder of how strong our loved ones can be. <3
Stephanie says
I love that ecard. I’m going to use that as my excuse on days I don’t feel like exercising…which is most days.
Jen @ Chase the Red Grape says
I love the inspiration behind the role exercise plays in your life. I came to exercise a lot later in life too (sport isn’t really a big part of growing up in the UK…sadly) around the age of 23/24. Now training is part of my everyday and it makes me feel like me. I am a stronger person now physically and mentally for it π
Laura says
I hear that all the time bout Europe. It’s funny how different we view health/fitness across the ocean. I think you guys just get to walk around more too though. No one walks in the the US.
GiGi Eats says
Seriously. I will forever think about your father and his strength when I ever have the thoughts of “I CANT DO THIS”… That will surely motivate me to keep on truckin! Your dad kicks ass!
Laura says
I heart you. And I’m making fun for you for leaving a serious comment. :*
GiGi Eats says
But I was legit thinking about your dad kicking asses. Like walking down the street, past people waiting for the bus, and literally kicking their butts.
Laura says
Whew. I was beginning to worry about you becoming a softie.
jennifer says
Aww your dad. I college I refused to sweat, it was a secret sorority pact. I didn’t start running more than just a random mile or two here or there until I was 23 — it was the week after my very young grandmother died from lung cancer . . . I remember going to Memorial Park in Houston thinking about her and then finishing a 9 mile run! 3 months later I did a marathon. BTW, I used to work at MD Anderson until we moved to Austin in late 1996
Laura says
I can’t even imagine you refusing to sweat!!! I love hearing you story – I had no idea how many people had similar motivations. And isn’t MD an amazing place? I’m forever grateful my dad was able to have access to that level of medical technology and care.
Deborah @ Confessions of a mother runner says
I love your story thanks for sharing it. I bet he is looking down at you and smiling everyday xoxo
Laura says
Thank you Deborah. I really hope he is!
Andy Atari says
I almost choked up a bit there. I have a kinda similar story for why I’m exercising. My dad was a health nut, so everyone expected him to live up to a ripe old age where (his words) he’d be feeding his grandkids with fresh fruits from his trees in the backyard. He passed away in his sleep, and nobody knows the reason why, not even the doctors. I had a really hard time accepting the fact that he was gone. I tried everything, meditating, writing, exercising. It was the exercise that helped me pick myself back up the most, though I know the other stuff also helped. I love exercising now and I’m grateful for it because it helped me with my grief so much.
Laura says
Oh wow… I’m so sorry to hear that. I can’t image having those questions. Thank you for sharing your story too. xo
Heather McClees says
Love this! Exercise is my personal drug and therapist all in one. I’m just not the same without some movement each day. Have a great weekend!!
Laura says
I totally agree – one good workout and my problems seem a lot more manageable!
Meghan@CleanEatsFastFeets says
I love sappy Laura just as much as sassy Laura, My dad is a motivator for me too. He’s run every single day for the past twenty-five plus years. Talk about a streak.
Laura says
Seriously?! Your dad is a beast. I feel so lazy all the sudden… π
Abby @ BackAtSquareZero says
I never knew the story about why you started working out and exercising.